Self-righteous observers tend to impose their own values on the objects that people with a cognitive disability enjoy holding. They need to be told that when the person with a cognitive disability is happy and occupied, that is what matters. The objections of onlookers to teething toys are selfish when they ignore the fact that the person with a cognitive disability is pleased. We all need to get our own value judgments out of the way and focus on the experiences of the person with a cognitive disability.